Later on the focus expanded and I have also included the topic of womanhood, because female body goes hand in hand with her femininity. If a woman is constantly fighting against her femininity, there is no way for her to accept and love her female body. Femininity is a gift of nature, which makes life beautiful, joyful, loving, kind and cozy. Rejecting this gift leads to difficulties, confusion and suffering. Nowadays a lot of women experience difficulties to let their femininity blossom due to fear of being too vulnerable, weak and dependant. Another factor that plays a role here, is the common belief that a female should be proud when she is similar to a male – we compete with them, we go through fire and water, demonstrate how tough we are as if to state that we are more masculine than men themselves. But nature is nature; it doesn’t give us gifts by chance. In fact, femininity is something powerful, as is masculinity. Femininity is power; however it is a different power than masculinity. It isn’t better, neither is it worse, it is just different.

When sexuality is blocked, our relationship towards ourselves suffers, as well as the relationships with the opposite gender. A woman or a man with psychological age of a 5-year-old is not looking for a partner, but for a Dad or a Mom instead. When we are in this state, we don’t take responsibility for our own lives, instead we wait for the prince or princess to come and save us. Once we find them, our whole life will fall into place or at least this is what we believe. But we really don’t realize that one single person cannot fill in our entire life. This abandonment of our own life in order to be in a relationship, leads to unhealthy relations, based on mutual dependency, in which we are not happy but at the same time we can’t walk away. At the same time others are so scared to commit, that we simply jump from one relationship to the next, suffering from loneliness all the time. It is great for a person to build the life they want day after day, enjoying all the beautiful things they have chosen and created for themselves. But it is even more beautiful when this journey is shared with an equal partner, who also creates their life with joy. This way each of the partners continues to go their path, but at the same time we are together – we support each other, share the moments of success and failure and learn from each other. This is why the biggest growth happens within a relationship.

Spirituality is also important. We could enjoy financial abundance and healthy sexuality, we could love our bodies and have a wonderful relationship, but as long as we hold only onto the material aspect of life, our souls will suffer tremendously. This pain of the soul sooner or later starts manifesting as a sense of meaninglessness, feeling lost and endless sadness. But if we make space in our life for spirituality, it will give us stability and firmness in this world of change. Spirituality is the deep wisdom that each of us has within. It is love, compassion, true care for the living creatures around us. It is the feeling of connectedness with all and everyone around us. Spirituality is the acceptance that each one has their own path in life and their own lessons to learn. And we all are equally important, no matter how different we are. Spirituality gives us inner strength, sense of purpose and a compass. But spirituality doesn’t exclude what is of the Earth, on the contrary – life is most beautiful and complete when spirituality and what is of the Earth go hand in hand.